Being Real

It is really easy to tell those who love children, families, marriage, and faithfulness from those who do not. Those who love sincerely cannot hide it. They hunt for pro-family books and web sites like this and others. They read, study, pray, and their hearts are broken when they see a child hurt by his or her parents' divorce. When I see an incoming link and traffic coming in from another web site, I know that the people who run that other web site are very sincere, and when I find people coming into this site directly through email, I know someone cared and is probably praying for that person and that person's family. You can tell a person who is faithful at heart because it will be difficult for them to attend an adulterous wedding without feeling very uneasy, and they will not be able to utter words of congratulations without feeling they have betrayed their own integrity severely, and they will squirm under the examining eye of God knowing they are not in right standing at that time. A person who loves people will comfort and pray for those abandoned by an unfaithful spouse, and a person who loves children will comfort and pray for children who suffer this tragedy. They will never try to defend it, but treat it as a among the most grievous of all sins and still do so with love for the unfaithful and a passionate desire to see them come to repentance and faithfulness. A person who loves his or her own marriage and family will also love other families and marriages and will know that every breaking of a marriage covenant treats with contempt the value of every marriage and every man, woman and child and God Himself.