Here are just a few really quick tips or reminders for saving marriages.

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• Surrender your situation to God completely and go over the possible outcomes of your situation surrendering all of those possibilities to God, too, knowing He will bring about whatever it is that's best in the long run even if your spouse doesn't.
• Pray and think about everything you can think of to thank God for. This will help keep your mind on the good things in life and help keep an attractive and confident smile on your face.
• Put away all deceit, manipulation, power struggles and such. Don't rely on sin or abuse or sacrificing your character to avoid the outcome you don't want.
• When you find that something doesn't work or makes things worse, stop doing it
• Think about what you're doing when things are going well with your spouse. Think about what you were doing just before your last fight ended and you made up, and do that. In short, think of what worked before and do that.
• Use the "as if" technique. Imagine your spouse was not doing what you detest and that your spouse was doing what you love instead. How would you respond or behave if that were the case? Act that way -- as if your spouse were doing what you like.
• Put away worry--that's a part of surrendering to God. Think of what the worst thing is that could happen and how you would get through it with the grace of God and know that if He can help you handle that, He can help you handle anything.
• Do things you enjoy. Enjoy time with friends of the same sex.
• Don't share your problems with a close friend of the opposite sex. It can make you feel vulnerable and lead to an emotional or physical affair. See Break Free From The Affair
• When you pray, take time to listen to God, too. Read the Bible.
• Tell everyone you know about this web site and other resources that might help them have great marriages
• Go to a couple's seminar such as I Still Do or Retrouvaille or something put on by NAME Online or Marriage Savers or Restore Ministries or Rejoice Ministries or Divorce Busting. If you're in central California, contact me at this web site if you wish as I can present a Marriage Breakthrough Video Seminar from Michele Weiner-Davis, founder of Divorce Busting.